“What did I do wrong?”, you’ll probably ask yourself. What you don’t realize is that you can’t get instant answers to a question like that. Things end just because. It’s devastating and liberating at the same time. For a while, you’ll think of changing something about yourself, as if doing so would bring that person back in your life, or it will make other people like you. But soon you will realize that things don’t work that way. When someone leaves, most of the time they leave for good, and there’s nothing you can do to bring them back.
For some time, it will hurt, and when you get used to it, you will be adroit at pretending it doesn’t. You will learn about yourself, and about how strong you really are. Of course, there will be some days when all you’ll want to do is cry, but that’s okay. Healing takes time, and people can’t tell you when you should stop grieving over this lost love. So take your own sweet time, but remember that there’s life after a break-up, and the world is filled with people who can love you.
One day, all these things will end. Your hurts will subside and you will no longer need to be pretend that you’re okay, ‘cause you will be. <3
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I’m so glad I live in a country where I can freely practice my own faith without fear of persecution. And I’m not just saying this because I’m Catholic and I live in the Philippines - the only country in Asia that’s predominantly Catholic. Here, we respect each other. You can be whatever you want to be. You can worship whoever you want to worship. And you would still be accepted. On special occasions, the Philippine government even declares non-working holidays, just so we could show our respect for fellow Filipinos of different faith - especially Muslims. Why can’t other countries do the same? Why should someone who refuses to recant his Christian faith be executed? Why is it that in some countries people are denied of what’s supposed to be a universal right?
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Learn from your mistakes. All those lessons will be your guide in figuring out what you should do and who you should be. Never let the fear of failing hold you back. It’s normal to fail. But it takes someone strong and determined to get back up and try once more. Be that kind of person. :)
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Stop posting gory/disturbing pictures on Facebook. I didn’t go in the medical field ‘cause I can’t stand seeing things like that and this is what I’m getting? On the internet? -___- C’mon.
Respect those people in the pictures. I’m sure they don’t want the whole world commenting on and “liking” (oh dear) a picture of what’s supposed to be one of the worst days of their lives. Someone lost his leg, his arm, his..whatever. And here you are sharing links of their pictures, and commenting “HAHA yuuuuck” on the post. Blood, flesh, open wounds. Of course, it’s not very pleasing to the the eyes. Do you really need to tell us that? Don’t add insult to injury. It’s painful enough, as you can see. How would you feel if you’re the one in the picture?
Have a heart.
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You make people happy. Or at least you’re capable of it. Your presence is enough to make someone’s day. Your smile. Your words. Your actions. You. Just you. It’s a weird thought, but it’s true. No matter how much you hate yourself sometimes, someone loves you for who you are. Even if the mirror says you’re not beautiful, someone thinks you are. And even if at times, you feel unwanted and unloved, there will always be people whose lives won’t be just as wonderful if you’re not part of it. :)
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Sometimes you just have to forget everything that hurts and move on. Life doesn’t stop for anybody, and if you will let things just pass you by ‘cause you still wanna cry and wallow in sadness, you’ll have a hard time coping up when you finally decide to get on with your life.
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There are times when you have to take things at face value. Sometimes “nothing” really means, well, NOTHING. It’s not healthy to always assume that something means more than what it appears to be.
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But remember that acknowledging the things that hurt you is essential to healing and moving on. :)
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I’m proud that I never abused the ANONYMOUS asking feature of Tumblr to insult anyone. I’m proud that all I have are nice words to send to people’s ask boxes. I’m proud that I leave people with beautiful messages, and not something to ruin their perfectly beautiful day, or to make them feel any worse than how they’re already feeling.
I receive anonymous hate messages sometimes, but that’s okay. I know I can’t please everyone, and I don’t intend to. At least, I say what I feel :) And I don’t need to hide behind a faceless person’s picture to do that. :) JUST SAYING.
(Source: noeeeee)
Because they’re not as expressive as girls. Girls complain all the time. They love letting the whole world know that they’ve been treated badly. While guys, almost always, just keep everything to themselves. That doesn’t mean, however, that they didn’t get hurt just as much.
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So don’t expect him to be. He can’t always understand you. At times, he can be pretty annoying. He may forget important dates, and be late when you two go out. He may not tell you that he loves you as often as you expect him to, but that doesn’t mean he loves you any less.
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